“Catch on fire with enthusiasm, and people will come from miles around to watch you burn,” said John Wesley. Add humor, purpose and service to your life and cook up a tantalizing dish that is sure to bring happiness and joy. The first ingredient is humor.
My husband Larry and I were hiking in Olympic National Park in Washington a few years ago and having a surge of energy, I went ahead through a circular tunnel leaving my 6’2” husband behind. While in the tunnel, I got the idea to hide at the end and jump out and scare him. It would be revenge for throwing my pillow down the hall in the middle of the night or stuffing my pillow case with shoes. I hid myself among the rocks and waited for the sound of heavy shoes. In my mind, I timed it perfectly, 5,4, 3, 2, 1. “BOO” But instead of being Larry, it was a 6’5” Englishman yelling, BLOODY HELL at the top of his lungs. “I’m so sorry,” I said, “I thought you were my husband,” which gave him little comfort. But I had time to hid my almost 5′ frame in the rocks like a little gnome and still scare Larry. We laugh often about this memory.
Now, I don’t recommend scaring Englishmen, but I do recommend more laughter in our lives. Physically, laughter triggers the release of endorphins that cause a sense of well-being. Children laugh on an average of 300 times a day whereas we laugh a dismal 17 times a day. What has happened to our childlike spirit and to our smile? We are robbed of our joy by worry when studies show that 85% of what we worry about never happens; And if it does, we find we have the coping skills to deal with the problem. As the days grow longer and Spring opens up its beautiful arms to us, take time to enjoy God’s creation. “Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face,”Victor Hugo.
While reflecting on God’s goodness, remember the second ingredient for a fulfilled life— purpose. In a normal life time, the heart will beat 2.5 billion times. What is your heart beating for? What is your vision and passion? Your talent is God’s gift to you. What you do with your talent is your gift to Him. Carve out time to develop your gifts and surround yourself with people who will help you develop them.
Now my third and final spice is service. “Service to others is the price you pay for your room here on earth,” said Muhammad Ali. I volunteer at a Care Center. As a guest host, I have so many opportunities to step into the lives of those in need. The beauty is that our Care Center can help a client not only get food, but dental, eye care and legal services if they qualify. We also find them jobs and a place to flourish in church. But the best gift is an empathetic listening ear. Our motto is James 1:19 “Everyone should be quick to listen, and slow to speak”…..It’s such a rewarding feeling to see a person enter with little hope and leave with a sparkle in their eyes knowing that God holds their future in His hands. Our aim is to change the world. Now that is a lofty goal. “In this life we cannot do great things, we can only do small things with great love,” said Mother Theresa.
Now you have the ingredients to cook up a vibrant life of humor, purpose and service. As we dedicate each day to Jesus, he will open the doors for us to impact lives. It’s an exciting and meaningful job. “We make a living by what we do, we make a life by what we give,” Sir Winston Churchill